A Toast on the Morning of New Year’s Day

Nowhere is the place we need to go to,
And we need to get there at anytime.
There we can meet up with ev’ryone who
Have found their pride in being past their prime.
We can make a toast to our empty glass
Remembering those specific moments
We have recorded from our future’s past,
Gift wrapped up to be given as presents.
Heavy hangovers will be shared by none,
Thinking on our individual sins,
But it does not matter what we have done
When we are judged by where action begins.
Mark your anytime you spend in nowhere
For no one finds it important to share.

Until Next Time – The Holidays Day 21

For most people, the New Year starts at midnight on January First when the ball drops and everybody cheers. And even though, during most December 31sts, I participate in this ritual, it is not until that trek back home and getting settled into the routine of school when I start to feel that the New Year has begun. Until that moment, I am still on vacation, trying to grab some fun while the opportunity is still available. All of the rules of vacation apply. Working out is unnecessary because vacationing is hard work. Food is always fat free, so I can eat whatever I want without having a guilty conscience. Staying up late and being merry is the whole reason I am on vacation in the first place, so I should never look to my responsibilities, hoping that they will be taken care of. That is the whole reason I have a job in the first place. How can I take on those resolutions that is tradition on the first day of the year when my mind is still thinking about these important vacation ideals?

So when I made my way to the airport on Thursday to make that long flight back to Seoul, I had a little more time to contemplate where I was in life and where I wanted it to be heading this year. Yes, I know that this is a little bit later than everybody else, but I have already stated my reasons. It was also time to say goodbye to Colorado once again. This is always a bittersweet departure. For anybody who travels a lot, they know that it becomes tiresome to always be living out of a suitcase and jumping around from place to place. There is always the urge to find the comfort of your own place and the ease of living that is there. When I got into that plane, I longed for the comfort of the groove I have carved away in the mattress of my own bed, and the spot on my couch that had felt the pain of my absence. I wasn’t looking forward to the fourteen plus hours of travel I would have to endure to get me there, but those thoughts made the journey a little less painful.

These lures of comfort are also tinged with the bitterness of leaving something wonderful behind. I know that it has been almost four years since I last called Colorado my home, and I have seen a lot of the world since then, changing my perspective of how I look at it. But this is the place that helped shape me into who I am today, and every time I go back, I can’t help to feel that influence. The dusty plains, and rocky mountains will always call out to me, and I always hate the moment that I have to say goodbye to them. The one consolation that I can take with me as I sit in that cramped airplane seat, scrolling through the Hollywood movies that I missed in my absence is that though I may be away, Colorado will always endure. And I look forward to the next time that I come back and say hello. So, until next time, fare thee well Colorado. And to all the friends and family that I leave behind, I look forward to catching up when our paths cross again some day.

You Can’t Go Back to the Green – The Holidays Day 20

When people think of Billy Joel, the song “Piano Man” usually pops into their mind, but a song that I think is often overlooked is “Scenes from an Italian Restaurant”. It is an epic song that follows the course of a couple as they fall in love during their teenage years, and eventually break up. One of my favorite lines from the song has always been, “Then the king and the queen went back to the green/ But you can never go back there again.” It is a thought that has really stuck with me the last couple of days as I have travelled around Denver. The city has some of those familiar landmarks that I remember from growing up, but there has been such an influx of people to the state lately that I am having a hard time finding things that used to be there, but are no longer there. New buildings, new developments, and new businesses are taking the place of open space and run down shopping centers all of the time, and it is no longer the Denver that I once remembered.

This was painfully evident when I went down to Auraria Campus in the heart of downtown to pick up some paperwork from my old university. The campus actually houses three different colleges, and mine used to share buildings with a lot of the older schools. But I had not been back to the campus since 2006 when I graduated, and Metro State University has grown quite a bit since then. There were many new buildings on the campus that belong solely to this university. Many new parking lots also dotted the campus, and the age of the student there had obviously lowered. What was once a commuter college had turned into a legitimate institution with a completely different vibe. The old campus I once knew was long gone, and would never be back again.

This is the way of life too. We experience things, and because of that we get a new perspective of the world. We may wish to go back to that innocent view that we once held, but we can never go back to that old way of looking at the world because our new view will always taint the old one. A city does the same thing. It grows and shapes itself into the needs of its citizens at that time. When you live there, you hardly notice the changes taking place, but if you ever leave and come back, it feels like you have come back to a completely new city. Sometimes that change is shiny and new, but other times, it is just the city showing its age as it slowly goes into decline. The point is that I can never come back to the green again. My time at the place has come to an end, and I can come back to visit from time to time, but it is somebody else’s place to call home and change into the vision that they have the place. It happens to us many times in our lives; we just need to recognize when that time has come and be wise enough to move on. And most importantly don’t get mad when the place we left behind has changed into something new. Remember the time you had there with fondness, and enjoy the new vision to come.

Catching Up – The Holidays Day 18

Back in the days when I used to work in the restaurant industry, I had a love-hate relationship with the holidays. The Christmas music that was piped in over the speakers used to get on my nerves, but it helped to bring in the crowds. And there were a lot of crowds. It was the time of the year where I made a lot of money because I always had packed sections, and people were a little loose with their wallets. I enjoyed making all of that money, but the crowds that were brought in were what we referred to as high school reunions, people who had not seen each other for a long time, and would sit at a table after they had eaten to sip on some water, and catch up. They would take up a table from a waiter who needed the money and sometimes cause us to have to wait around until after they left so we could clean the table and go home. Yes, I got a tip out of these people, but the annoyance was not always worth the change, and we would argue amongst the wait staff about who would take the table or not.

You see in the United States, a table is a waiter’s most important tool, and waiters who can turn and burn through tables are the ones who end up making the best living because they sell the most. So when a group comes in and takes up this valuable real estate, it costs a waiter money. I am not saying that it is right, but that is the system that America has come up and maybe if restaurants started to pay their waiters a decent wage, it wouldn’t require the customer to come up with their salary. We could learn something by the way other countries do it because I generally find myself more relaxed when I eat at other establishments around the world.

I do have to confess that after all of those years of despising the high school reunion tables, that I have started to act in the same manner. Over the last couple of days, I have been able to catch up with some old friends by getting together for lunch. I became one of those people that wanted a refill on my ice tea so we could talk about all the things we have done since we last saw each other. Yes, I was kind, and left a nice tip, but I was one of those people who would not leave the table quickly after I finished my meal. I want to apologize to those waiters whose table I would not give up. But it was great that you gave me the opportunity to catch up with these people.

It is the one thing that keeps me coming back, my friends and family. I love exploring the world, and I love the adventures and experiences I get to go through by having the lifestyle that I have created for myself. But I need to come back home so I can get together with these people and catch up. Yes, I do love the mountains of Colorado and miss them from time to time, and yes, I do wish that I had a grocery store that I could go to that would stock its shelves with a variety of food that I feel comfortable with, but these are things that I can do without. There is always a new landscape that I can admire when I travel, and I might not enjoy the flavors as much but that is part of the adventure because I sometimes find things that I enjoy more. And even though I do meet exciting new people on the road, and forge new friendships, it is these old friendships that have become significant to me. These are the people who have been through a lot with me, and I wish to continue to share my life experiences with them. So thank you to those waiters who have put up with me over the last few days. I appreciate it. It is the best holiday gift that you could have given me, the experience of catching up.

Games are Important – The Holidays Day 16

Last night I gathered around the dining room table with my parents, and My sister’s family to play a game of Codenames. It is one of the newer games that has helped bring about the resurgence of the popularity of board games, and I can see why because it is a smart game that with endless possibilities that will never let the game get old. It would almost impossible with all of the way the cards can be laid out that you would never experience the same type of mental connections that make this game interesting in all of the amounts of times that you get together to play the game. Its gameplay is also unique, and I have never experienced another game like it. Getting together with my family on a Friday night to play a board game might sound like a boring way to spend the start of a weekend, but I tend to disagree, and I think it is part of the reason why board games are becoming big business again.

These games are important. First of all, they are a social event. This is something that you cannot get from television or video games as well as you can from a board game. Television used to be a social event with people gathering around to experience the same story at the same time, but people still remained quiet so as not to disturb the action on the screen and didn’t really interact with each other. In recent years, it has gotten even worse. People rarely watch television in real time. Instead, they grab their tablet or phone, find a quiet corner of their house and experience the show on their own. The same can be said for video games. Yes, there are a couple of games like Madden, Smash Brothers, and Mario Kart that lend themselves to people getting together to play, and they have even set up on-line communities that allow people to interact over headsets, but the speed of the game takes over and the opportunity to talk gets taken away, and people become more interested in their reaction times rather than talking to each other.

Board games like Codenames are actually designed for people to interact with each other. There is enough downtime during the game to allow people to talk about their days and what is going on in their lives, and when the action is going on there is collaboration that is happening that once again forces people to interact with each other. It might not be as slick as a video game or cost as much to produce as a television show, but for some reason, this interaction with other people ends up more satisfying then getting together around a screen. I feel that after I play a game that I have made a stronger connection with the people I played with rather than when I sit down and watch something on the screen.

As a teacher, I also think that board games are important. On Fridays in my Creative Writing class, we always play a game of some kind such as Gloom, Balderdash, Magnetic Poetry, Exquisite Corpse, or Line-by-line Story. My students love these days the best and not just because it allows for some downtime in their hectic schedules, but because they get something out of the experience as well. The games are designed to spark creativity, and help my students with their writing whether it is with their voice, word play, or putting together a tighter plot. They are learning while having fun. In fact, I believe that when you are having fun is when real learning is taking place. This is when true engagement is taking place. This is part of the reason that I always try to make my classroom a fun place to be.

Codenames is a great example of how a game can be fun and at the same time a learning tool. It requires that the Spy Master makes connections to various words spread out on the table, and communicate that connection with the use of only one word. It requires that people start to see the connections in words. It also forces players to see that words can have multiple meanings. There is a lot going on in this game through some mental challenges. And it wasn’t like we were all sitting at the table staring at the matrix we created with intense concentration. We were laughing, talking, and having a good time.

This is why games are important. I am happy for this resurgence of games, and I am amazed at the different ways that people have come up with to challenge us while still being entertaining. It is the reason why when I have the opportunity to play a game, I always take it up.

Taking Care of Business – The Holidays Day 15

Part of the reason that I traveled back to the United States over break was to visit family and friends, and I have done plenty of that. The other reason was to relax a little bit and get ready for the next semester of teaching at my school in Korea, and I am feeling refreshed right now. But one of the main reasons that I came back was to take care of some things that needed to happen so I could get my visa for the next school year. There are a lot of ends and out that need to happen that is just easier to take care of in the United States instead of a foreign country. If you are one of those people experiencing the need of doing this right now, it is worth the loss of a headache to take that long flight to get these things done in your home country because getting in touch with those agencies you need to talk to overseas makes it hard to get things done.

Copies of Degrees – When I first moved overseas I started a file where I could keep all of my significant documentation and brought that small folder with me. One of the things that I needed to bring with me was all of my degrees because a piece of strong card stock with some ink from the college I graduated from always proves how equipped I am to take on the job that I do. Even with this file, I have had to go through it over the last four years, and I have misplaces one of my degrees because of the renewal of my state license, so I have had to schedule a time with the registrar of my college to get a new one printed up. This is hard to do over the holiday season because they are closed more than usual, but they are also on campus more than you would expect during the break. I would recommend making an appointment so they know all of the information that you need or you might have to come back later to get what you need.

Sealed Transcripts – This is actually really easy to do. Just do not open them when they arrive. It is a little hard to get your college to send this documentation overseas, so I am happy that I came home to pick them up. I just had them mailed to my parents’ house and got extra copies in case I ever needed a new one further down the road. I can now place that extra copy in the folder I told you about. They do usually cost anywhere from ten dollars to fifteen, but they can be order on-line from any college. I did find it hard to navigate the website to find the place where I could order one, but if you just type in the word registrar, it should take you to that page really quick because this is something that most colleges are asked about on a regular basis.

A Copy of the School’s Accreditation – Not every country asks for this one in order to get your visa, but, just like the transcripts, it does need to come in a sealed envelope. Schools are also not used to having this request. The school I am working for gave me a copy of what the document looks like and I was able to find an email address for my registrar so I could show them what I needed and if they could put it together for me. I got on this a long time ago because it took a lot of back and forth between and the registrar before I was able to get them to find what I needed, but all colleges should have this document somewhere on file. The college I attended for my master’s degree did not have this email address and I needed to call the registrar from across the ocean. In order to get them during the time that they were up, I had to get up early in the morning to make the call which was a pain in the butt; however, the call did not cost much. Skype gives you the option to make these long distance phone calls for a fraction of the price if I had tried to make the same call on my cellphone. You just need to make sure you put the money on your Skype account before making this call. I have done this recently and I find it to be a lifesaver with other issues and emergency phone calls I have had to make overseas. I would recommend doing this for just such occasions.

A Confirmation Letter for Teacher Registration – This is another one that not all countries will ask for, and this is one that the schools will not have on file. The school, once again, gave me a copy of what it should look like which I was able to email to my college, but it took a little more back and forth to get the document I needed. Once again, it needed to come in a sealed envelope. I found that I was able to accomplish this one quicker through a phone conversation rather than getting it done through email. I was still able to do it without spending that dollar on the overseas phone call, but I do think it was a dollar well spent.

Police Clearance Report – This was the one that was most difficult to obtain. It does need to be a background check from the country that I am from, and the one that I live in right now. I have heard horror stories about getting this done in South Korea and that it might take anywhere up to six months to get it done, so the earlier you can start on the process the happier you will be. I have also found out that there are many different types of reports, so you should check with you employer about which one they are really going to need. Doing it in the United States has been really easy. In fact, I am getting two kinds of them. I was able to get one from the city I used to live in, and it only took them 24 hours to process the information. I just went down to the police station, showed them my ID, and they went to work. I am also going to get an FBI background check. This used to be a long process that required me to get fingerprints and then send them off to the FBI to wait a month later for the information that I needed. But due to them finally catching up to the digital age, you can go to a center and get this information processed within 48 hours. In this case, it is a lot easier to do it in your home country instead of trying to explain the process to a police officer who speaks a completely different language and is not familiar with the process.

Even though, it has been nice to relax and visit with family and friends, I am glad that I came back to America over the break to take care of all of this other stuff as well. There have been a couple of stumbling blocks along the way that have been easier to take care of here then in South Korea. I know some of you will find this information useless, but for those of you going through the process, I hope it helps you obtain that work visa easier, and without as much stress. I know as a teacher, my life is already stressful enough, and the easier I can make this process, the better off I will be to able to enjoy the fruits of my labor.

Thanks for listening.

If You Don’t Like the Weather in Colorado – The Holidays Day 15

While I was growing up in Colorado, there was this idea that Colorado, even in the heart of summer, was always covered in snow. Logic would tell you otherwise, but still when I talked to people from other parts of the United States, they would always ask if I got sick of the snow. I blame Monday Night Football for this perception. It was the only time that the United States collectively turned their attention to this state which at the time had people leaving it in droves because of the economic collapse of the oil market. But for some reason, every time the Broncos played on Monday night, there would be a blizzard. It didn’t matter if this happened in December or September, the game would be a slick and slippery fumble fest. Though these games were fun to watch, they forever cemented in the mind of the public that Coloradoans lived in an icy landscape. And I know for those of you who still believe this to be true that I shouldn’t tell you this because you will instantly want to move to the state and make a place that is becoming slowly overcrowded even more crowded, but this perception is false.

Yes, Colorado gets snow, and at time there are some huge dumps that bring the city to a halt. Yes, the temperature does drop sometimes to frigid levels that threaten frostbite for anybody who ventures outside unprepared. But the reality of the situation is that these moments are not as consistent as Monday Night Football would have the rest of the nation think came about. And yes, the mountain do get a considerable amount more snow than the plains or the front range gets, but keep in mind that Denver is on the front range which is on the fringe of the plains, and it does not get the amount of snow that the ski resorts and the mighty peaks of the Rocky Mountains get. Weather wise, Denver is actually a really great place to live.

There is a saying in Denver, “If you don’t like the weather, wait five minutes and it will change.” Now this might seem like a little bit of an exaggeration, but not as big of one as you would think. There can be fluctuations of temperature on any given day that goes all the way down to nine degrees in the morning to sixty degrees by mid-afternoon. The snow that comes one day will quickly disappear because of this sudden rise in temperature. So even though, it does dump from time to time, it does not stick around long enough to make you hate the fact that there is always snow around. There are more days of sunshine than Los Angeles. In fact, Denver averages 300 days of sunshine in any given year. Yes, sometimes those days of sun are cold, but a lot of the time, they are warm and sunny. Yesterday is a great example of this. Even though, the temperature was frigid as we rung in the New Year, and there were a couple of inches of snow on the ground, I was able to walk around outside without a hat, and my jacket completely unzipped yesterday. If I really wanted to, I could have walked around with only a light jacket on. And it is supposed to be even warmer today. It is this constant change in weather that makes Colorado always an interesting place to live in.

So if you happen to watch a football game that is being played in Denver, and you see them playing a blizzard, know that this is not always the case, and it is just Colorado’s way of fooling people into believing that it is always cold and snowy.